STILLBIRTH SUPPORT
Bedside Bereavement Program...
No one ever imagines hearing their provider tell them, "I'm sorry, there is no heartbeat", or "I'm sorry, but we need to make life/death decisions after the birth of a baby."
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Unfortunately, this is the reality for one in every four parents on their family building journey. Three Little Birds was founded to support parents and providers in navigating these difficult moments and empower them in making the most of the short moments families will have to be together, bond and make memories.
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Since 2016, our volunteers have supported more than 300 providers and parents having an advocate support them bedside in navigating difficult conversations, honoring cultural/spiritual/personal diversity and giving the gift of memory making, bonding and infant remembrance portraiture.
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Overview/process for support
We ask providers contact us ASAP via this form or call/texting 856-656-6436 when a family is experiencing a loss, even if you haven't presented our offerings to them. This will allow us to set up a 48-72 hour window of availability for our volunteers. The sooner we know of a potential need, the greater the chances are we can send an advocate. Please note, our call hours are 7 AM-10 PM daily.
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Once a time is agreed upon, Three Little Birds will dispatch a volunteer to support both the family and provider bedside. This includes meeting parents where the are, listening to their needs, validating their loss and requests, offering resources and options for consideration and supporting families in their choices, no matter what they choose.
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What families receive
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Validation from someone who has been through it/gets it and wants to support you through this life-altering experience.
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The gift of infant remembrance portraiture (up to 30, gently edited photos of baby, memory making and family)
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A Maria Rosa Memory Kit (currently at our expanded program at Cooper University Hospital and St. Christopher's Hospital) which includes bathing/grooming items, a book to read to them and materials to take hand/foot prints and more.
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Our updated printed resources and memory making pages with QR codes which direct families to our website where resources are being updated routinely regarding financial assistance, support groups, and recommended reading. (available in English, Spanish, Haitian Creole, Portuguese, French and Russian).
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Access to our Postpartum Support Program which offers access to licensed mental health providers, postpartum providers and peer matching.
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Access to our growing nest of support of local connections in the Philadelphia/South Jersey region
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Current Partners
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Cooper University Hospital
Camden, NJ
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Since 2016, Three Little Birds has supported more than 80 families experience stillbirth or infant loss in the NICU with our Bedside Bereavement Program. In 2024, Three Little Birds expanded its current program at Cooper through the Horizon Foundation for NJ. This includes support for up to 30 families over the next year, training for providers, updated resources and more. This program supports Cooper's compliance with the expectations of the Autumn Joy Stillbirth Research and Dignity Act. Read more...​
St. Christopher's Hospital
Philadelphia, PA
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Since 2024, Three Little Birds launched our volunteer Bedside Bereavement Program at St. Christopher's Hopsital of Philadelphia in collaboration with Maria Rosa's Memories, a legacy project developed in memory of Jacqueline Russo's niece who was stillborn over Thanksgiving 2023. This program combines our existing program with the donation of memory making kits for NICU families have the materials needed to make meaningful memories while having to say goodbye. Read more...​
Jefferson Hospital
Washington Township, NJ
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Since 2017, Three Little Birds has supported more than 45 families at Jefferson Hospital in Washington Township, NJ. Jefferson has supported several Wave of Light events with Three Little Birds and in 2021, they were gifted a Cuddle Cot and free Perinatal Bereavement Training for providers. Additionally, Three Little Birds has donated more than $1,200 in bereavement support items and materials for providers and families. Read more...​
Jefferson Hospital
Philadelphia, PA
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Three Little Birds has supported more than a dozen of bedside support requests at Jefferson Hospital in Philadelphia since our founding. Starting in 2025, we are excited to collaborate with their existing bereavement support committee to ensure all families interested, have fair and equitable access to our gift of infant remembrance photography and distribution. Also, they will have access to our resources (available in multiple languages and provider support books.​
Other hospitals supported
When requested and volunteers are available, we have supported families from the following other local hospitals. Please use the link above to request the availability of our volunteers.
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Virtua Health, Voorhees, NJ
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Inspira Health, Vineland, NJ
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Inspira Health, Mullica Hill, NJ
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AtlanticCare, Pomona, NJ
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Penn Medicine, Philadelphia, PA